Monday, September 10, 2012

Why Be Reluctant to Speak Out???

Prompt: Mainstream Americans are reluctant to speak out in writing, even when it can make a real difference. How can we shift that reluctance by setting aside self-judgment, releasing fear and tapping our common heritage as powerful thinkers as a means of turning our writing into action? 

I feel that from time to time every person has this feeling. It may be for different reasons for each person, but some of those reasons may include: feeling they wouldn't be heard, feeling embarrassed, or just plain not wanting to do it. In reality even though we may have this feeling it is not always what comes out of the situation. Many times if you ask for help you are going to get it. Also it can be very beneficial to others if you voice your opinions, thoughts or questions because someone else may feel the same way. It can be a way for you to feel better about yourself and the decisions you may make. If we take the initiative to step up to the plate it is very likely that we can overcome our fears of this issue. I know from personal experience that I don't like to speak in front of others because I feel embarrassed and that I may say something wrong. I feel this way even when I need to ask a question through writing, but if I take the step to do it I usually come out on top of the problem with information I need to feel confident.
This brings me to the profession of social work that we are all getting into. Taking what we learn from these classes and experiences and turning them into tools for us will help us help others in positive ways. We will always learn from our actions sometimes in good ways, and sometimes in bad ways. But if we don't take the steps to have those experiences we won't learn as much.

3 comments:

  1. It looks like you have made a commitment to push past your fears and doubts and I commend you for that.

    I think you also made a point that I had thought about while writing my blog but I think I forgot to include that you may be fearlessly saying something aloud (or in writing) that other people are also thinking or feeling. Sometimes it takes that one person to be the pioneer.

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  2. Yes Dani and Warrior!

    What can we do during this time in the social work program to build our courage and claim our voices?!

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  3. So much do, so little time. You seem so enthusiastic, so energetic my God the social work field sure could use that. You've overcome so much and are so eager to learn. There's a saying that I came up with "there's a difference between acquired knowledge and applied knowledge". Dani you've been through so much and so eager to learn but I also feel your eager to apply this knowledge and wisdom, you are on the right track.

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